I grew up in a male dominated home. In fact on one side of my family I was the only girl for over 20 years, so when I say that I understand men, I really do . At the same time I am a woman and compared to the simplistic mind of a man we are very complicated and all around different individuals. And that’s OKAY, it actually balances us all out.
I really understood the differences in males and females more when I had children. I gave birth to two boys first and life was simple and easy.,Very easy, sometimes too easy.Then I had two girls and everyday of my life since then is full of emotions that do not necessarily match up to their situations. I have always wondered why my parents were so happy that I was the only girl, I get it now.
Women think months and sometimes years ahead in the future. Before my husband even asked me to marry him I had already matched his name to mine . I planned our wedding, in a botanical garden with only family and decided where we would live and that was all after about 6 months of dating (give or take).
Women pay attention to every detail of everything anybody does. We make constant mental notes, consciously and unconsciously. And when it comes to the opposite sex, we will ALWAYS over exaggerate his advances. It’s the nature of it all ( Remember Eve) to think it’s more than it is and if it’s not we try to make it happen.
Men are not oblivious to the things we do. Although they do not always realize all women’s advances toward them, they do realize when they are taking things too far and then phone calls , text messages and other things stop. And since social media and smart phones have gained notoriety the advances of men toward women have increased. The funny part about it is that in this time there is no need for mental notes, you have a life long receipt and if you’re technologically savvy those media records are now filed on hard copy. Yup you screen shoot those messages and have them printed off and now there can be no denying what you said and the intent you had behind it.
So here are about 5 things Men cannot say to a woman… Via inbox, text on a street unless you are really showing some interest and how a woman receives that message.
1. MAN- HEY HOW ARE YOU?
WOMAN-HE LIKES ME
2. M… WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS AFTERNOON?
W… UM, HE LIKES ME.
3. M… SENDING ANY KIND OF Emoj
W… He looked thru his phn for this, he likes me.
4. M… THE NEXT TIME YOU’RE IN TOWN CALL ME.
W…CALL HIM, HE LIKES ME.
5. M… I like that too.
W… He likes me.
You have to be very careful of the kind of vibes you put out. I know I’m slightly over exaggerating the truth but there are enough windows broken out of cars, enough hacked pages, enough broken cell phones and enough clothes bleached or burned in a year to back up my thoughts. LOL
Chocolate and Chicken Wings…